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Surrender

February 7, 2018 by Meghan 13 Comments

I gaze downward, into her sweet, soft and finally peaceful face.

Her cheeks are flushed with fever. Her nose is pink and still running, even in sleep. I carefully wipe away the sticky streams of fluid, trying not to disturb her slumber, all while singing “Frere Jacques” in a near whisper. On good days, Ave would join me for the refrain. “Ding, dong, ding.” This is not a good day. 

With each inconsolable cry, each howl hurled from her lips, I feel something crack inside of me. A chasm opens, and I ache for what I cannot fix.

When she hurts, I hurt.

Every so often, a wet cough struggles forth from her chest, causing her small limp limbs to spasm. I absorb each shock wave; her body is curled into mine on the rocking chair, head tucked into the nook of my left elbow, mouth on my breast, suckling even while she sleeps. I am all too happy to share myself.

Motherhood is more than this moment though.

It’s soaking in a steam shower with your child on your lap, urging them to blow their nose into your open hand, hoping to draw out the sickness that holds her whole being in its sinuous grasp.

It’s stepping out of the shower and letting water drip from your cold naked body, ignoring the mess and the warping of the wood floor, while you focus all your attention on your child.

It’s wrapping your arms around them and rubbing their back, mumbling words of comfort you both desperately need, while they cry and cling to your torso like a barnacle on the bottom of a weathered boat.

Quite simply, it’s making sure their needs are met, without a care for your own.

Motherhood is surrendering your entire being, knowing it will eat you alive and offering yourself anyway.

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Comments

  1. danielle says

    February 7, 2018 at 2:09 PM

    sweet Ave!!! sending you all the decongestant energy.. hope she feels better asap. i think mother love is when you suck the snot out of your baby’s nose without hesitation. a nose frieda is mother’s love right there. i now use something similar but it works better, it is no joke and i am not gonna think twice about it. i will gladly take on my child’s sickness any day… just for her to feel good. i know ‘they’ say that you have to take care of yourself in order to take care of another. that is some tough shit when your baby is sick! but it’s true. hope you are getting rest as well. xx

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    • Meghan says

      February 8, 2018 at 2:12 PM

      I’m trying to get some rest too. Thanks lovely, sending hugs and kisses your way.
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  2. Navya says

    February 7, 2018 at 8:42 PM

    Wow! I’m speechless. You put into words what I felt when my child was sick couple of weeks ago. Hope Ava feels better. Sending love & happiness to the both of you.

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    • Meghan says

      February 8, 2018 at 2:24 PM

      Thanks Navya. I’m glad you’re little one is feeling better. Caring for a sick child can be so difficult.
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  3. Kirsten says

    February 7, 2018 at 9:13 PM

    Nailed it.
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    • Meghan says

      February 8, 2018 at 2:28 PM

      Blows kiss.
      Meghan recently posted…SurrenderMy Profile

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  4. Jen @ Chase the Red Grape says

    February 7, 2018 at 10:17 PM

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Toughest job in the world.
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    • Meghan says

      February 8, 2018 at 2:29 PM

      Yes absolutely. Well said.
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  5. Cora says

    February 8, 2018 at 8:48 AM

    You are a wonderful – amazing – mother. ‘

    Sending all my love for health and recovery for Ave, and rest and peace for you.
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    • Meghan says

      February 8, 2018 at 2:29 PM

      Thanks lovely. I appreciate your kind words.
      Meghan recently posted…SurrenderMy Profile

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  6. Grandma Lala says

    February 8, 2018 at 10:34 AM

    Every mother knows. Perfectly said.

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    • Meghan says

      February 8, 2018 at 2:30 PM

      Thank you! Blows kiss.
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